I just returned from a Catholic wedding celebration, where most of the guests at the reception were not invited to the wedding Mass. It was held at an up-scale, suburban hotel with wine flowing from the moment one walked in, (no need to save the finest Cabernet for last here- it was there from the get-go) the chairs covered in fine linens, lavish flowers decorating every table, and a live band and a DJ set up. The young couple impressed me as being very down-to-earth, genuine decent young people. But as the evening wore on, and I intensified my people-watching, the following observation by a Benedictine College Economics prof sums up quite nicely my feeling that it identifies what is going on in the lives of many Catholics these days, myself included: "....a ctive decisions to sin, such as the decision to be greedy, ...happen, of course, but that was not the path to sin for most people. Rather, it was the simple urge to be comfortable, to make life easier for oneself and o...