Skip to main content

While We're at it..."


A recent editorial in our most famous Catholic University's paper stated:

"Notre Dame’s failure to educate its students about the Church’s sexual teachings is a failure that most affects its women.  Most Notre Dame women remain unaware of the mandate’s relevance to their lives even though it pertains to them especially.  Educating Notre Dame women about the Church’s important teachings on sexuality should have been one of the administration’s natural reactions to the mandate." I could not agree more. I also thought this pertinent:


"Ovaries aren't Catholic...."
Suzy Younger, Guest Contributor
I wish someone had told me.  I wish someone had given me the truth, about my body, about my health, about my fertility, about my options.  I wish someone had been there for me.  But they weren’t.   If they had, perhaps my story would have been different.
Like many women I know, the physician I saw for my health issues had only one solution for my situation: go on the Pill.  So I did.  After all, didn’t he know best?  He had seemed so confident that this would solve my problems.  Without even examining me, he had written me a prescription for the Pill—a triple dose in fact.  So I tried it.  But instead of relief, my problems remained and now I experienced a myriad of side-effects as well.  Eventually I took myself off of the Pill and began a quest for something better,  for authentic and complete healing.  A quest for hope.
I battled heavy periods, abnormal bleeding, incapacitating bouts of hormonally-induced depression and anxiety attacks, irritability that strained even my closest relationships, shed more tears than I can count and ultimately endured years of infertility before I would come to learn what I know now: the truth. The truth that saved my hopes of one day becoming pregnant.  The truth that healed my body and mind. The truth that restored my spirit.  The truth that indeed saved my life.
Finding the Creighton Model FertilityCare System and NaProTechnology was the answer I was looking for.  A scientific system that allows a woman to observe her body’s biomarkers and therefore monitor her own gynecologic and reproductive health.    A system that telegraphs abnormalities in her cycle and guides her physician in identifying, diagnosing and treating the underlying medical conditions she faces.  A system that offers effective alternatives to the Pill.  A system that works to restore and protect her fertility, not suppress it as is the case with hormonal contraceptives.  A system that empowers a woman with knowledge of her body and herself.  A highly-effective system that can be used by couples to achieve or avoid pregnancy.  A system that is morally acceptable to people of all faiths.  My mind was blown. Why had I never learned this before?  Why was no one talking about this?
This powerful women’s health science has healed me and changed my life—so much so that I left a career in higher education and went back to school to become a FertilityCare Practitioner.  Now, in my work at Saint Joseph FertilityCare Center, I am able to share with others the information that I so wish I had known years ago.
So here we go.  The 10 things I know now and wish I had known in college:
1) Ovaries aren’t Catholic
Know what? Ovaries are not Catholic.  Ovaries are non-sectarian.  They don’t care if they are in the body of a Catholic or an atheist.  They function according to science.  What I share here is not just for Catholics.  It’s science and it’s for everyone, regardless of faith or lack of it.
2) Women are empowered when they chart their cycles
It’s embarrassing how little most of us women know about our bodies and how they work.  Charting your cycles changes this.  For me it was as if a veil was lifted.  For the first time I really understood myself.  In charting you come to understand the inner workings of your body.  You understand why you can’t stop crying one day and yet feel ready to take on the world the next.  You understood how various choices you make positively or negatively affect your health.  You understand precisely how and when you could become pregnant.  With knowledge comes empowerment.
3) The Pill is not the only way.  There are effective alternatives.
We are bombarded by the message that the Pill is essential to a woman’s health—that it is the only way to address her gynecological issues.  That’s simply not true.  I have lost track of the number of my patients that I have seen healed through NaProTechnology’s alternatives to the Pill.  Many of them are walking this campus—your fellow Notre Dame students, faculty and staff.
4)  Women deserve something more than a Band-Aid.
Hormonal contraception for medical purposes is little more than a Band-Aid.  It suppresses a woman’s fertility cycles and manipulates them to appear regular.  In doing so, however, it masks the real issues and fails to correct them.  When the “Band-Aid” is removed, the issues are still there, unhealed.  NaProTechnology on the other hand is a cooperative approach to women’s health.  It allows the woman and her physician to observe her cycles in their natural state, see where things are not working properly and then work to address and heal those specific areas—not mask the issues or suppress her entire fertility.
5) Now is the time to address your health concerns!
Don’t wait until you are ready to start a family to address your gynecologic health concerns.  I firmly believe that if my issues had been properly diagnosed and treated when they first appeared in my early 20’s, I would have been able to have biological children by now. Instead, because my conditions remained masked by the Pill, and I didn’t know about NaProTechnology, healing was delayed by 10 years.  Get help now.
6)  You’re not crazy!
Ladies, have you ever experienced any of the following symptoms before your period starts: irritability, depression, crying easily, breast tenderness, bloating, weight gain, carb craving, headaches, fatigue or insomnia?   Gentlemen, do you know a woman in your life that fits this description?  This is called premenstrual syndrome (PMS) and it is no joke.  It is a legitimate medical condition that can destroy a woman’s quality of life approximately one week per cycle.  That’s approximately 25 percent of her life!  She’s not crazy, she just needs help.  NaProTechnology is 95 percent successful in alleviating or completely eliminating PMS without the use of antidepressants.  In all seriousness, it has saved my life.
7) You can go green with your health
Organic and environmentally-sustainable living is a hot topic.  So as you carefully select your organic, non-hormonally altered foods, consider this: an 8-oz steak from a steer given a hormone implant contains 45 percent more estrogen (5.1ng) than a steak from a non-implanted animal (3.5ng).  By contrast, just one birth-control pill contains 35,000ng of estrogen!  So for a woman on the Pill, that’s the hormonal equivalent of eating 3,431 lbs of beef from a hormone-implanted animal, every single day!  Doesn’t that put it into perspective?  To go green with your health, consider natural family planning and Pill-alternatives for medical purposes.
8) Natural Family Planning is scientific and it actually works
When used to avoid pregnancy, the Creighton Model FertilityCare System is as or more effective than the Pill and more effective than any barrier method such as a condom— 99.5 percent (method effectiveness), 96.8 percent (use effectiveness).  When used to achieve pregnancy, 70 percent of couples of normal fertility are pregnant within in the first cycle and 98 percent by the sixth.  For those couples struggling with infertility, nearly 80 percent can become pregnant within the first year.  This is nearly three times more effective than in vitro fertilization and other artificial reproductive technologies.
9) Men need to know this!
The information provided by FertilityCare and NaProTechnology is absolutely pertinent to men. Not only can a man can better understand the conditions under which he could become a father, but also because knowledge of a woman’s health helps him understand, support and assist the women in his life be they wife, girlfriend, sister, mother, or friend.
10) Faith and Science, not Faith versus Science
FertilityCare and NaProTechnology stand on their scientific merits alone.  But I want to point out that faith and science are not in conflict here.  In this area of women’s gynecologic and reproductive health, faith and science agree.  One does not diminish or exclude the other.  This system allows one to be faithful to the teachings of the Catholic Church while having effective family planning options and access to excellent medical care.  It’s the best of both worlds.
The need and desire for this authentic view of women’s health and fertility are abundant.  Now it’s time to respond.  Count me in.
Suzy Younger is a FertilityCare™ Practitioner and Manager of Saint Joseph FertilityCare™ Center at Saint Joseph Regional Medical Center.  She may be reached at youngesu@sjrmc.com or (574) 335-6472.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

This video of a young boy twerking at Pride has homophobes outraged | Gay Star News

DANCING WITH MR. D:   This video of a young boy twerking at Pride has homophobes outraged | Gay Star News : 'via Blog this'

Dancing With Mr. D: Grooming the Little Children

A former pro-transgender activist said she regretted her previous work in pro-transgender activism, adding she felt she was "indoctrinated" on gender ideology in an interview with  Fox News Digital.  "I started to realize that what I had been doing at my job at the LGBT Center, it was grooming," Kay Yang, a former employee of a location in New York, said. Grooming in this context means "to get into readiness for a specific objective." Kay works as a 'deprogrammer' to help parents and children who have been 'indoctrinated' by the 'cult-like' transgender agenda. Yang herself previously went by they/them and worked as a 'trans educator' in schools for years.  Listen to her testimony.    

A Series on Spiritual Warfare

In The Screwtape Letters , C.S. Lewis’ use of irony exemplifies distinctions between God and Satan’s attitude toward human beings; Lewis does this through the use of innuendos, sarcasm, and ironic inversions. I recently stumbled on a three-part series which builds on the truth in Lewis' writing here , here and here . Good Advent reflection!

Liberal Catholics, Conservative Catholics, and Holy Catholics

In Smoke , I wrote of two modifications of "Catholic" in popular parlance these days: Lest we forget, there were indeed reform-minded Council Fathers who responded to Pope John’s vision of the Church growing in spiritual riches as a fruit of the Council under the guidance of the Holy Spirit in the hope that the faithful might through grace be aided in turning hearts  and minds  toward heavenly things.  Given what has been said thus far, it should not surprise the reader that many “liberal Catholics” view the pontificate of John Paul II as too “conservative,” and out of touch with the modern world, while the traditionalists view the writings and teachings of the Holy Father as modernist! Dr. Jeff Mirus of Catholic Culture   has rightly linked Pope Francis's view of Vatican II as  synonymous  with those of his predecessors, who were in attendance.

Libido Redux: On Transgerderism

W hat Christianity shares with Judaism (and Islam,  for  that matter) is a belief that God created all things (though all three religions understand God differently). We are creatures. We owe our being, our existence, to Him. We are stewards of His creation, stewards, even, of our own bodies. Acknowledgement of God’s creative power leads to religious awe, a sense of the sacred. This means that each creature/creation has a nature, a manufacturer’s (God’s) instruction manual. Masculinity and femininity are aspects of that nature for human beings. When belief in God becomes irrelevant, we can throw away this instruction manual and refuse to see ourselves as a creature who has responsibilities to God and to society. To understand ourselves, we need to start at the beginning. What kind of being are we? The traditional answer–originating with the Greeks, continuing in the Middle Ages, and persisting into our own time -- and the answer given by common sense intuition -- is ...

Blogging Disciples!

To promote a book I spent years in writing , I began this blog. I am a baby boomer who knows all too little about blogging and the latest techie stuff. As I was perusing various Catholic blog sites, I noticed a post by Fr. Longenecker entitled,   "The Smoke of Satan."  If one troubles oneself to read Fr.'s quite accurate assessment, and becomes interested in just exactly how, according to the Pope who coined the phrase "Smoke of Satan" the Devil made his entrance into the post-Vatican II Church in the U.S., then my book is just what the Savior may have ordered, so why don't you!?

About the Author II

In the years prior to the Second Vatican Council, I also remember attending daily Mass before elementary school, which, because we had fasted for three hours, allowed us to eat breakfast in Mr. Sullivan’s math class. I remember bellowing out Tantum Ergo   at Wednesday Evening Benediction, which I was in the habit of attending with my Mom, siblings and “Gramp,” (her Dad, John). I also remember looking forward to participating in the praying of that most sublime form of prayer, the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, with my St. Joseph’s Daily Missal. With Pope Benedict’s having granted permission for priests to offer the Extraordinary form of the Roman Rite, we hear much ado in the form of reaction against this from Catholic “progressives,” and about how the Council placed a new emphasis on the laity’s participation at Mass, the implication being that Catholics did not actively participate at Mass prior to Vatican II, opting for such devotions as the praying of the Rosary or Holy Car...

Dancing with Mr. D: Gender Ideology

In a private conversation with Bishop Andreas Laun on January 30 as part of the Austrian bishops’  ad limina visit , Pope Francis strongly condemned “gender ideology.” In so doing he follows the example of Pope Benedict, who is on record as saying that gender ideology is “a negative trend for humankind,” and a “profound falsehood,” which “it is the duty of pastors of the Church” to put the faithful “on guard against.” Bishop Laun The Austrian bishop stated, “In response to my questioning, Pope Francis said, ‘Gender ideology is demonic!’” As I have chronicled on these pages, the Holy Father often refers to the work of the devil. Of gender ideology, Bishop Laun explained that “the core thesis of this sick product of reason is the end result of a radical feminism which the homosexual lobby has made its own.” “It asserts that there are not only Man and Woman, but also other ‘genders’. And furthermore: every person canchoose his or her gender,” he added. “Today,” he said, ...

Novus Motus Liturgicus

From The Smoke of Satan in the Temple of God: In 1959, Pope John XXIII saw a true need for liturgical renewal within the Roman Rite in accordance with the metaphorical principle of organic development, the aim of the Liturgical Movement endorsed by Pope St. Pius X.  In authentic organic development, the Church listens to what liturgical scholars deem necessary for the gradual improvement of liturgical tradition, and evaluate the need for such development, always with a careful eye on the preservation of the received liturgical tradition handed down from century to century. In this way, continuity of belief and liturgical practice is ensured. As Cardinal Ratzinger wrote at the time, the principle of organic development ensures that in the Mass, “only respect for the Liturgy’s fundamental unspontaneity and pre-existing identity can give us what we hope for: the feast in which the great reality comes to us that we ourselves do not manufacture , but receive as a gift. Organic de...

Libido Redux: Porn Stats

If one types "Libido Redux" on this blog's search engine, you will see various events which corroborate Pope Paul VI's prophecy that the human libido is a "crack" through which Satan can play havoc with souls. Here is the latest in the series, which should enlighten the reader, the stats on children and Christians in particular.  From one who knows the truth of Paul's prophecy: "I have posted on a number of other articles about porn, but I wanted to post here as well to reach out to anyone else who, like me, is a porn addict. I tried for the first 9 years of marriage to stop looking at porn, and I could not. I asked God to help me stop, I went to confession, I received the Eucharist daily, but I could not stop. It was not enough for me to do it on my own with God. I had to ask for help from other people, see a counselor, and get into a 12-step recovery program, and that is how God is healing me. I believe the numbers here because I understand ...